The dictionary definition of heroine is: a mythological or legendary woman having the qualities of a hero b: a woman admired and emulated for her achievements and qualities.
Even the dictionary makes reference to the male hero to define the feminine extraordinary woman. The heroine or the Goddess.
Yes, mom de la Quinceanera is the unsung heroine. Whether it's planning your daughter's Quinceanera or helping other family members in need of your help it's more than likely you to the rescue. Who comes to your rescue when your feet hurt so much you can hardly walk?
But, unsung means you quietly perform what ever is required, without asking for help. You probably do it all on your own.
I hear all to often that's what's happening to mom's when they are planning their daughters Quinceanera. But, please share with me whose fault is it? Do you ask for help? Did you make a list and ask friends and family to help with different tasks? If you can say yes, then you are a smart good delegater. And, a good role model for your daughter. If you answered no. You need to spend some alone time and figure out a plan to get some assistance in order for you to not get stressed and avoid getting sick.
My first recommendation is to purchase my book: Quinceanera Connection: Your Dream Celebration On Any Budget. The book is the perfect guide for helping you to be organized and it contains all the tips and tools you need when planning a large event. It's the best investment you can make.
Everyone who has read it, says they can't stop reading it and then they refer to it on all the time. The bonus - 70 page Quinceanera eplanner you get when you buy my book, will help you with every step of your planning process. Plus, the usual hectic last week and the day of the Quinceanera will all come together with ease. You will avoid costly mistakes and you will save money. Because of the 101 tips and information noted in the book, you will be able to not only be the heroine, you will enjoy being the Queen.
In fact... if it was up to me I would make sure every mother wore a crown at her daughter's Quinceanera Celebration. Mom's deserve special recognition. Maybe, I should start a trend and promote a crown for mom de la Quinceanera.
What do you think? Would you wear one? Please let me know. For the next two weeks everyone who phones me, will be asked that question. I will then post the answers here.
Enjoy, relax, take care of yourself.
All the best,
Priscilla
Friday, May 23, 2008
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Creating Magic When Planning your Quinceanera Celebration
Wow...I've been receiving phone calls from Mom's of the Quinceanera who are starting to plan their daughter's celebration two years ahead of time. Each mom shared they feel if they purchase the things they need for their daughters celebration a little at a time they can afford to have the dream party they had always hoped to have.
Thoughts from other mom's-
Elizabeth, one of the moms shared; she feels there is no financial burden on the family this way. Instead of spending small amounts of money on unnecessary day to day things, she is saving and buying things as she goes along planning her daughter's Quinceanera celebration.
Alma, another mom I spoke with said: 'after I make my purchase I put it in a special place for safe keeping. My daughter and I look at everything at least once every few weeks. We have a list of what we want to buy and we have so much fun checking out everything all the time'. I could hear the joy in her voice. It was magical.
I've found when I plan a party or vacation it's as much fun as the actual experience it self. Don't miss out on the double fun. It's important to take enough time during the planning process so everyone has the opportunity to share in the double fun and excitement. First during the planning process and then the actual celebration.
That's why it's so important to leave enough time to enjoy every experience along the way.
Think about how wonderful it's to watch your favorite movie twice. Don't you enjoy the movie more the second time? Don't you feel more comfortable because you've been there before?
I know for myself I miss things the first time when I see a movie. The second time I see new things and have a new magical experience.
Plan ahead make the planning process a lot of fun and a magical bonding happening for everyone involved in your daughter's Quinceanera celebration.
BUY NOW- your perfect guide-book with the bonus 70 page Quinceanera eplanner to help you create your daughter's magical day.
Thoughts from other mom's-
Elizabeth, one of the moms shared; she feels there is no financial burden on the family this way. Instead of spending small amounts of money on unnecessary day to day things, she is saving and buying things as she goes along planning her daughter's Quinceanera celebration.
Alma, another mom I spoke with said: 'after I make my purchase I put it in a special place for safe keeping. My daughter and I look at everything at least once every few weeks. We have a list of what we want to buy and we have so much fun checking out everything all the time'. I could hear the joy in her voice. It was magical.
I've found when I plan a party or vacation it's as much fun as the actual experience it self. Don't miss out on the double fun. It's important to take enough time during the planning process so everyone has the opportunity to share in the double fun and excitement. First during the planning process and then the actual celebration.
That's why it's so important to leave enough time to enjoy every experience along the way.
Think about how wonderful it's to watch your favorite movie twice. Don't you enjoy the movie more the second time? Don't you feel more comfortable because you've been there before?
I know for myself I miss things the first time when I see a movie. The second time I see new things and have a new magical experience.
Plan ahead make the planning process a lot of fun and a magical bonding happening for everyone involved in your daughter's Quinceanera celebration.
BUY NOW- your perfect guide-book with the bonus 70 page Quinceanera eplanner to help you create your daughter's magical day.
Monday, April 21, 2008
Quince Girls' need Mom to Listen with Love & Understanding
Planning your daughter's Quinceanera takes lots of time and effort. Some days, I bet you wonder, how are you going to make it. But you do! That's being a mom. I wanted to share your daughter has her own challenges as she helps you with the planning of her Quinceanera celebration.
Most likely she is in high school now and that's a social shock for all girls. Your daughter needs you more than ever before. As I wrote in my book: Quinceanera Connection: Your Dream Celebration On Any Budget. In the 'Parent Talk Section', I discuss how important it's for every teenager to have a trusting sounding board to be heard with love and without judgment.
So often teens say- 'no one ever listens to me', because there is so much emotion in the conversations, no can really listen. The best way is too just listen. Listen with love and understanding.
Treat your daughter the way you want to be treated. Ask her how her day was. Tell her you love her, especially on those difficult days. Speak with a loving and caring voice. Don't criticize. listen...listen ...listen...
I want to share a new blog entry on my web site www.QuinceaneraConnect.com. Michelle's Blog is written by Michelle, a freshman in high school who is planning her Quinceanera. She and her mom have a beautiful relationship, but they had to work at it. I think Michelle has expressed her feelings and thoughts very well, about the challenges teen girl's have about 'boys'. I recommend you read her blog entry and have your daughter read it also. Then discuss it. Hear what she has to say. Michelle writes from her heart and soul the truth. That's what life is all about. Being true to yourself first.
All the best,
Priscilla
Most likely she is in high school now and that's a social shock for all girls. Your daughter needs you more than ever before. As I wrote in my book: Quinceanera Connection: Your Dream Celebration On Any Budget. In the 'Parent Talk Section', I discuss how important it's for every teenager to have a trusting sounding board to be heard with love and without judgment.
So often teens say- 'no one ever listens to me', because there is so much emotion in the conversations, no can really listen. The best way is too just listen. Listen with love and understanding.
Treat your daughter the way you want to be treated. Ask her how her day was. Tell her you love her, especially on those difficult days. Speak with a loving and caring voice. Don't criticize. listen...listen ...listen...
I want to share a new blog entry on my web site www.QuinceaneraConnect.com. Michelle's Blog is written by Michelle, a freshman in high school who is planning her Quinceanera. She and her mom have a beautiful relationship, but they had to work at it. I think Michelle has expressed her feelings and thoughts very well, about the challenges teen girl's have about 'boys'. I recommend you read her blog entry and have your daughter read it also. Then discuss it. Hear what she has to say. Michelle writes from her heart and soul the truth. That's what life is all about. Being true to yourself first.
All the best,
Priscilla
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Save Money- Exquisite Quinceanera Dresses Below Wholesale
Getting a REAL deal has always been fun for me. My father taught me when I was a young girl, how to make the dollars I earned from my allowance go a long way. I was rewarded when I did comparison shopping and knew what things were worth. Till this day I still make sure I'm aware of the value of what I purchase.
Before I place anything on quinceaneraconnect.com website, I compare all other products on the web. I check out other companies shipping rates and I make sure I'm giving my customers the best deal.
When, I met Cande and heard that she had to close her Quinceanera/Bridal shop, because her landlord doubled her rent when her lease was to be renewed. She had to close the business her mother had started 35 years ago.
She had just received her new order of Quinceanera dresses/gowns and she couldn't return them. OUCH!
I told her that I would help her out by placing pictures and some information about her inventory on my site. I get no profit from the sale of these dresses. I wanted both my customers and Cande to benefit.
There are only nine or so gowns left. In limited colors and sizes. If you are the lucky one grab it. We will keep your secret and not let anyone know you got such a great deal.
This is the link ... more information regarding the Quinceanera dresses
Before I place anything on quinceaneraconnect.com website, I compare all other products on the web. I check out other companies shipping rates and I make sure I'm giving my customers the best deal.
When, I met Cande and heard that she had to close her Quinceanera/Bridal shop, because her landlord doubled her rent when her lease was to be renewed. She had to close the business her mother had started 35 years ago.
She had just received her new order of Quinceanera dresses/gowns and she couldn't return them. OUCH!
I told her that I would help her out by placing pictures and some information about her inventory on my site. I get no profit from the sale of these dresses. I wanted both my customers and Cande to benefit.
There are only nine or so gowns left. In limited colors and sizes. If you are the lucky one grab it. We will keep your secret and not let anyone know you got such a great deal.
This is the link ... more information regarding the Quinceanera dresses
Monday, April 7, 2008
What Mom's de la Quinceanera Must Know About The Teen Brain
As you're planning your daughter's special day in her life. Her Quinceanera Celebration. At times you probably find it difficult for both of you. It's not because you aren't a great mom or your daughter isn't a wonderful person. It's that she is a teen in an adults body.
Interesting scientific information has been brought to my attention today and I thought I would share it with you. Through the use of MRI's and other research studies neuroscientists at the National Institute of Mental Health have shown that a teens' brain is not fully developed until his/her early twenties. What this means is that most teens can't be expected to make decisions on a consistent basis like an adult can. The part of the brain that controls their decision making process is the frontal lobe, which is still process of developmental growth.
Dr. Jay Giedd, lead researcher at the National institute of Health using MRI scans demonstrates by comparing the adult brain to the teen brain, the teen brain uses unlike pathways as the adult brain to make decisions. Dr. Giedd's studies show that for many teens this area of the brain is not developed until the early 20's. Teens instead use another area of the brain for making decisions. The area of the brain teens use controls the arousal, fear and the overall teens emotional state.
Therefore, when a teenager makes a decision many times he/she is influenced by the excitement of the moment and rather than the long term consequences regarding his/her decision.
If you missed the Good Morning America segment on Spring Break behavior you will find this very interesting information. The behavior on the video is such that I don't think any parent would want to see it. However, education is the best prevention of this ever happening to someone in your family. Watching the video with your daughter and discussing both of your observations without judgment will help both of you.
Dr. Giedd states,'The brain is largely wired for social interaction and for bonding with caretakers. And sometimes it's even disappointing to people with all the science and all the advances that the best advice we can give is things that our grandmother could have told us generations ago: to spend loving and quality time with our children...'.
Glenn Goldberg, J.D., R.C. Adolescent Specialist and Parent Coach, states: Most parents of teens have experienced bad attitudes and disrespectful communication. It's not fun, but it's normal...Understanding more about your teenager's still developing brain may help release some of your hurt, resentment and confusion. It also may encourage you to give your child some extra grace, patience and compassion as they complete their passage from being a dependent child to an independent adult.
I thought this is a very important piece of information to share with you as your daughter celebrates her right of passage at her Quinceanera Celebration. This knowledge will help both of you better understand her need for your support and guidance as she matures into a lovely young woman.
I have placed some links for those of you who would like to learn more about the subject of the Teen Brain and it's development and the reason why teens follow the behavior of the group even when it puts them in danger. Education is power.
I recommend you share this information with your daughter. Discuss your areas of concern. It will bring you both closer together. Your days will be filled with more sunshine. You can also check out my blog on the same subject at Ask Priscilla.
Other links:
The Teen Brain by Glenn Goldberg- J.D. R.C. Adolescent Specialist
Inside the Teenage Brain- interview with Dr. Jay Giedd by PBS
Spring Break Confessions -video
Interesting scientific information has been brought to my attention today and I thought I would share it with you. Through the use of MRI's and other research studies neuroscientists at the National Institute of Mental Health have shown that a teens' brain is not fully developed until his/her early twenties. What this means is that most teens can't be expected to make decisions on a consistent basis like an adult can. The part of the brain that controls their decision making process is the frontal lobe, which is still process of developmental growth.
Dr. Jay Giedd, lead researcher at the National institute of Health using MRI scans demonstrates by comparing the adult brain to the teen brain, the teen brain uses unlike pathways as the adult brain to make decisions. Dr. Giedd's studies show that for many teens this area of the brain is not developed until the early 20's. Teens instead use another area of the brain for making decisions. The area of the brain teens use controls the arousal, fear and the overall teens emotional state.
Therefore, when a teenager makes a decision many times he/she is influenced by the excitement of the moment and rather than the long term consequences regarding his/her decision.
If you missed the Good Morning America segment on Spring Break behavior you will find this very interesting information. The behavior on the video is such that I don't think any parent would want to see it. However, education is the best prevention of this ever happening to someone in your family. Watching the video with your daughter and discussing both of your observations without judgment will help both of you.
Dr. Giedd states,'The brain is largely wired for social interaction and for bonding with caretakers. And sometimes it's even disappointing to people with all the science and all the advances that the best advice we can give is things that our grandmother could have told us generations ago: to spend loving and quality time with our children...'.
Glenn Goldberg, J.D., R.C. Adolescent Specialist and Parent Coach, states: Most parents of teens have experienced bad attitudes and disrespectful communication. It's not fun, but it's normal...Understanding more about your teenager's still developing brain may help release some of your hurt, resentment and confusion. It also may encourage you to give your child some extra grace, patience and compassion as they complete their passage from being a dependent child to an independent adult.
I thought this is a very important piece of information to share with you as your daughter celebrates her right of passage at her Quinceanera Celebration. This knowledge will help both of you better understand her need for your support and guidance as she matures into a lovely young woman.
I have placed some links for those of you who would like to learn more about the subject of the Teen Brain and it's development and the reason why teens follow the behavior of the group even when it puts them in danger. Education is power.
I recommend you share this information with your daughter. Discuss your areas of concern. It will bring you both closer together. Your days will be filled with more sunshine. You can also check out my blog on the same subject at Ask Priscilla.
Other links:
The Teen Brain by Glenn Goldberg- J.D. R.C. Adolescent Specialist
Inside the Teenage Brain- interview with Dr. Jay Giedd by PBS
Spring Break Confessions -video
Thursday, April 3, 2008
How to Handle Last Minute Stress or Any Stress
O. K. you waited until the last minute to order things and ouch things aren't going the way you had hoped. It's alright you didn't know about me before. That's my fault. I should have been on TV, newspapers and radio. Please forgive me. I will journey out there soon. In the mean time you need to be able to get through these difficult times as you plan your daughter's Quince. You need to feel fine and know everything will be beautiful for your daughter's dream Quinceanera celebration.
But, you need to take a few minutes each day and focus on JUST YOURSELF.
I recommend you start doing the following:
I used similar techniques working with Injured Workers for over five years as a life coach. Helping each person build their inner strength, while handling their challenges in life. The process helped hundreds of people. It's my gift to you.
I use this process all the time myself. Especially when Google changes my website position in the organic search engine for no reason at all.
Share the process with others. Let us all feel peace and harmony within. When we feel grateful more goodness comes to us.
Go for it! You deserve to have your life filled with unlimited joy, peace, love, abundance and harmony.
All the best,
Priscilla
But, you need to take a few minutes each day and focus on JUST YOURSELF.
I recommend you start doing the following:
- Find a quiet place.
- Sit down and be comfortable.
- Close your eyes.
- Take a deep breath and exhale.
- Then repeat: take at least six deep breaths and exhaling after each deep breath.
- Next: say to yourself (or out loud) "I know GOOD is happening today" repeat the statement 6 times and then end with -
- Thank you God.
- Take one more deep breath and exhale and end with a smile.
- That's it! It works! You will feel more relaxed. You will be happier. You will look beautiful. You'll be able to enjoy the moment and the day much more.
I used similar techniques working with Injured Workers for over five years as a life coach. Helping each person build their inner strength, while handling their challenges in life. The process helped hundreds of people. It's my gift to you.
I use this process all the time myself. Especially when Google changes my website position in the organic search engine for no reason at all.
Share the process with others. Let us all feel peace and harmony within. When we feel grateful more goodness comes to us.
Go for it! You deserve to have your life filled with unlimited joy, peace, love, abundance and harmony.
All the best,
Priscilla
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Check out our latest press release and an article
The press release tells the story of three Quinceanera's and their families and how they benefited by using the Quinceanera Connection - planning system. Click on the link listed here:
http://www.prweb.com/releases/2008/3/prweb789324.htm
Check out this article you should find it useful:
Quinceanera - 5 Things Latina Teens Need To Prepare For Their Special Day By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Priscilla_Mills]Priscilla Mills
Your Quince celebration is a good time to start to think about the opportunities you have in your life. It is your choice that determines what kind of life you choose for yourself. As you prepare with your family for your right of passage celebration, this is the time to think about what your transition means to you. With all the decisions and preparations, many girls find this time to be overwhelming, but it doesn't have to be. It can be a wonderful learning experience and time to bond with your family as a young woman no longer their little girl.
Often parents want to give their daughters big expensive parties, because they never had one of their own. Parents mean well, but they do not realize the stress it places on their daughter. Parents many times do not realize what their daughter really wants? They think their daughter should be happy with the party they are giving her, because they never had this opportunity when they were her age.
Maria Perez father sold his hard earned investment, just so he could create an expensive Hollywood -like party for his daughters Quinceanera celebration. Sadly, her father found out later, that Maria was so nervous at her gala celebration she could not enjoy herself. She could not wait till the evening was over.
It is very important to sit down and be honest with your parents and tell them what you really would like for your Quince celebration. Think about what is really important to you? Share with your parents that you appreciate their generosity, but their love for you is what is so important. Plan what you would like to say to them. Your parents have had their dreams about you being their special Princess at your fabulous party for a long time. So you don't want to upset them and get into an argument. You want to tell them how you really feel about having a huge expensive party and how grateful you are for whatever they give you.
What ever type of celebration you are going to have this is the time in your life, when you are making your transition from a little girl to a young woman. It is important for you to focus on the special person you are. It is time for you to check out the special talents you have. The talents you were born with and that differentiates you from everyone else.
If you don't already know what makes you great, continue to search. The sooner you become aware of your special talents the happier you will be. As you continue to discover your special talents you will feel more confident about yourself. This will help you as you make your journey for a meaningful life.
As a teen you are still going through physical and emotional changes. All the changes you are going through are part of the transition you are making as you become a young woman. Both your mind and body are changing as you make your transition from a little girl to a young woman. It is time to celebrate. Yes, there is a lot going on. Your body is changing, you might feel hormones raging and your emotions at times seem to be running wild. You might be gaining or losing weight and suddenly you feel a need for peer support and approval.
It is normal to start to feel a need to declare your independence from your parents. You are becoming a grown person capable of making your own decisions. Your search for yourself can create stress in school, home and among your friends.
The choices you make and the actions you take today will make the difference in your life today and for the rest of your life.
You need to believe in yourself.
You are special and you deserve the best. But it's up to you to take the steps and move forward as the special young woman you are.
Priscilla Mills is the author of the book: Quinceanera Connection: Your Dream Celebration On Any Budget. Priscilla Mills educates her audience that the beautiful Quinceanera tradition should be the focus of the right-of-passage ceremony. Mills is very concerned that MTV and Hollywood has influenced families and they are spending money on the celebration they can't afford. On her site http://www.Quinceaneraconnect.com her articles and blog; Ask Priscilla is filled with good advice and hints on how to have it all and still have money left over for the Quinceanea's education fund. There are also blogs written by girls planning their Quinceanera. They share their everyday life challenges as they plan their own Quinceanera. Mills offers a free 17 page eplanner when someone signs up for a free website membership. She also offers a free bonus of a 70 page eplanner with the purchase her book: Quinceanera Connection:Your Dream Celebration On Any Budget. Mills is a life coach and a graduate of the Harvard Business School, O.P.M. entrepreneurial program.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Priscilla_Mills http://EzineArticles.com/?Quinceanera---5-Things-Latina-Teens-Need-To-Prepare-For-Their-Special-Day&id=934254
http://www.prweb.com/releases
Check out this article you should find it useful:
Quinceanera - 5 Things Latina Teens Need To Prepare For Their Special Day By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Priscilla_Mills]Priscilla Mills
Your Quince celebration is a good time to start to think about the opportunities you have in your life. It is your choice that determines what kind of life you choose for yourself. As you prepare with your family for your right of passage celebration, this is the time to think about what your transition means to you. With all the decisions and preparations, many girls find this time to be overwhelming, but it doesn't have to be. It can be a wonderful learning experience and time to bond with your family as a young woman no longer their little girl.
Often parents want to give their daughters big expensive parties, because they never had one of their own. Parents mean well, but they do not realize the stress it places on their daughter. Parents many times do not realize what their daughter really wants? They think their daughter should be happy with the party they are giving her, because they never had this opportunity when they were her age.
Maria Perez father sold his hard earned investment, just so he could create an expensive Hollywood -like party for his daughters Quinceanera celebration. Sadly, her father found out later, that Maria was so nervous at her gala celebration she could not enjoy herself. She could not wait till the evening was over.
It is very important to sit down and be honest with your parents and tell them what you really would like for your Quince celebration. Think about what is really important to you? Share with your parents that you appreciate their generosity, but their love for you is what is so important. Plan what you would like to say to them. Your parents have had their dreams about you being their special Princess at your fabulous party for a long time. So you don't want to upset them and get into an argument. You want to tell them how you really feel about having a huge expensive party and how grateful you are for whatever they give you.
What ever type of celebration you are going to have this is the time in your life, when you are making your transition from a little girl to a young woman. It is important for you to focus on the special person you are. It is time for you to check out the special talents you have. The talents you were born with and that differentiates you from everyone else.
If you don't already know what makes you great, continue to search. The sooner you become aware of your special talents the happier you will be. As you continue to discover your special talents you will feel more confident about yourself. This will help you as you make your journey for a meaningful life.
As a teen you are still going through physical and emotional changes. All the changes you are going through are part of the transition you are making as you become a young woman. Both your mind and body are changing as you make your transition from a little girl to a young woman. It is time to celebrate. Yes, there is a lot going on. Your body is changing, you might feel hormones raging and your emotions at times seem to be running wild. You might be gaining or losing weight and suddenly you feel a need for peer support and approval.
It is normal to start to feel a need to declare your independence from your parents. You are becoming a grown person capable of making your own decisions. Your search for yourself can create stress in school, home and among your friends.
The choices you make and the actions you take today will make the difference in your life today and for the rest of your life.
You need to believe in yourself.
You are special and you deserve the best. But it's up to you to take the steps and move forward as the special young woman you are.
Priscilla Mills is the author of the book: Quinceanera Connection: Your Dream Celebration On Any Budget. Priscilla Mills educates her audience that the beautiful Quinceanera tradition should be the focus of the right-of-passage ceremony. Mills is very concerned that MTV and Hollywood has influenced families and they are spending money on the celebration they can't afford. On her site http://www.Quinceaneraconnect.com her articles and blog; Ask Priscilla is filled with good advice and hints on how to have it all and still have money left over for the Quinceanea's education fund. There are also blogs written by girls planning their Quinceanera. They share their everyday life challenges as they plan their own Quinceanera. Mills offers a free 17 page eplanner when someone signs up for a free website membership. She also offers a free bonus of a 70 page eplanner with the purchase her book: Quinceanera Connection:Your Dream Celebration On Any Budget. Mills is a life coach and a graduate of the Harvard Business School, O.P.M. entrepreneurial program.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Priscilla_Mills http://EzineArticles.com/?Quinceanera---5-Things-Latina-Teens-Need-To-Prepare-For-Their-Special-Day&id=934254
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